A man wearing a red shirt stood next to a woman holding a bag, and a lively discussion ensued as to the propriety of this casual acquaintance. The following exchange took place: Woman: Excuse me, but I can't seem to find what I was looking for. Man: Why not just ask for it? Woman: I want to ask you something that has bothered me, that has been on my heart since I left home. Man: What is that? Woman: I want to ask how home affects my spirit.